After I’d discovered my husband playing away, I decided that I r

After I’d discovered my husband playing away, I decided that I really deserved a bit of fun for myself, and a bit of freedom too, so after the divorce, which was much messier and drawn out than I would have liked, I was on my own again. It was a situation that I was both looking forward to and dreading. I really did not know what to expect and was very unsure of myself and what to do for the best, but I knew that I wanted to get into some serious adult dating.

I knew that I wasn’t really interested in a steady boyfriend or any long term relationship, at least not right away, but I was keen to get out and start meeting people, by which I meant men, of course, for some real adult dating action.

For best adult dating, I think you have to go online. The strategy with online dating is, if your are a girl, is to just put up your best picture and remember to smile. Smiles are sexy and can make an average face look friendly and attractive to the opposite sex. For best effects get your hair done and get someone you know to take a good picture - don‘t try to take one yourself with the mobile phone.

Anyway, with a good picture up the messages from men just come flooding in and its difficult to choose. I eliminate the ones who are only interested in sex, despite the fact that that‘s what I am primarily interested in and what I consider adult dating to be, just because I don‘t want to seem too cheap. Then I eliminate the ones who don‘t provide enough detail, or can‘t be bothered to write properly.

The first guy I met took me to this dance. I enjoy a good dance but it soon became apparent that his idea of a dance was an opportunity to feel me up on the dance floor. I was as keen as anyone, but I really didn’t appreciate being fondled in public like that. That was a very bad start and, no, he didn’t get anything.

The next guy was way different, though. We met in a local pub, had a chat and a meal. It was only pub grub, but most pleasant and I could really feel myself warming to the guy and his conversation. He wasn’t pushy, either. He invited me back to his place, which I declined, but told him how much I was enjoying his company. I asked if he would mind a hotel - just so that we could continue our conversation in a more relaxed setting, of course.

I think he was well aware of what I meant, and I don’t think he was disappointed, either.